I caught my husband’s birthday betrayal on the Ring doorbell camera. Like a coward, I thanked him anyway: DEAR JANE

Dear Jane,

It was my birthday recently, and as a treatment, my husband offered to make a nice cooking at home to celebrate one night later.

I was excited – he doesn’t cook too often, so that was a very important thing.

But that day, I reported that someone was on my front door on my phone and that I was shocked by what I saw in the door bell camera footage.

My husband greeted a woman holding an enormous Uber EATS bag. It was a lot of food to eat alone.

That’s when he hit me: he ordered my birthday to be delivered.

When my husband proudly and clearly lying, I returned home that night to spread a complete spread on the kitchen table. I made me how much I have made me to prepare a detailed meal.

I thanked him to destroy my special day and enjoyed the food he did.

But from his lie – especially on my birthday – his heart was broken that he made me question the integrity of the man I married. Even if I knew you were trying to do something sweet.

Should I tell him that I know he was lying, or should I let him just think I’m buying?

Sincerely,

Just getting desserts

International Best Selling Author Jane Green offers sage advice on the most burning problems of readers in Aunt Aunt’s column.

Dear, just desserts,

Forgive me, but you have to overcome it.

Your husband had clearly had the best intentions, but he couldn’t live for them, so he chose the next best option.

Even though he’s a white lie to you, it’s ridiculous to keep against him.

Who knows why he can’t cook?

Maybe he’s a terrible cook. Maybe something’s here, and I’m out of time. Maybe he actually cooked a meal, but he burned it crispy.

What are we To do Know, he wanted to do something nice for your birthday, and even if he did it.

To comprehend the fact that it is not homemade and does not tell you, is outside the subject.

It’s not like he’s forgotten your birthday, or he remembered you to make you feel special and didn’t do anything.

Life is the place we look at and I would try to re -frame this narrative.

Instead of focusing on the fact that your husband is lying, focus on your birthday trying to make you feel cute and special.

Nevertheless, you should tell him that you certainly know – like a gesture rather than discontent. You can gently dry it about cooking skills and let you laugh together.

Dear Jane,

After leaving recently, I left my long -term boyfriend.

It was torn – apparently, I saw you came.

The problem is a summer holiday reservation to a beach town that is already paid and cannot be returned.

We were both looking forward to this, so he still suggested that we still go on a journey, even though he gave up.

Although it sounds strange, I am thinking of going with him. After all, we ended with good terms and we still care about each other, but I am worried I can give him the wrong idea.

I’m worried that he will think it’s a chance we can do Come together that there is no.

Still on a journey – partially I pay – and is the risk of harming your emotions?

Sincerely,

Guilt was abandoned

Dear guilt, crowd,

It seems strange if you have made a terrible separation with your ex -boyfriend on a journey, and you’ve ever promised to see each other again.

We often think that they should be cruel, but former lovers who leave and decide that they want different things in life are often able to maintain lifelong friendships.

One of my close friends is someone I’ve been out for a while in my twenty years.

The truth that we have dated briefly has never prevented our friendship and I love it to date.

If your ex -lover wants you to go on a journey, you should both be in good conditions.

However, I would set some limits.

Contact the hotel and just ask for a two -bed room instead of one place and give a serious speech with your ex -lover.

You are happy to be friends with him and you are looking forward to the journey together, but be clear about the reasons that distinguishes you and tell you that nothing will be a romantic thing between you.

If he accepts and understands, you can have a good time.