‘The Feels’ singles mixer fosters deeper dating connections at $200 per person

Allie Hoffman’s “The Feels” mixer aims to forge deeper connections at modern meetups through an unorthodox process that costs up to $200 per person.

At an event he attended USA Today On Oct. 22, Hoffman spoke about the state of modern dating and how he hopes the program he founded in 2022 can help people connect with others more easily.

“It feels very difficult out there and we truly believe it’s our fault,” Hoffman said. “I don’t believe that’s true. I think there are some macro-level forces that are affecting us, that have created the situation we’re in right now. And I’m here to solve a lot of that.”

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The process, which takes place at different levels, involves pairing participants across the room. He then asked the duo, “What are you doing?” A discussion proposal is given, including topics such as. “How do you show and receive love?” promoting communication. Every conversation ended with some kind of physical interaction, such as “fingerprinting,” a hug, or prolonged eye contact.

A Level 1 event costs approximately $90 to $100 per person; A Level 2 event, which includes surveys and more personalized matching, can cost up to approximately $200 per person.

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At a Level 2 event in Los Angeles, Hoffman argued that capitalism, technology, and popular culture have diminished the interpersonal skills needed for dating and reduced relationships to transactional exchanges based on unrealistic expectations. The key to solving the problem, he said, is true connection.

“The Feels” allows participants to pair up for intimate conversations and physical interactions. (iStock)

“Choosing to truly be with another being is a true act of rebellion,” Hoffman said. “I’m really interested in how we can map pathways to that.”

While his event is a response to modern dating problems, Hoffman said he doesn’t believe The Feels is intended to help people find “the one.” Instead, she hopes people can use Feelings to practice emotional vulnerability with others.

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“For me, the dream for people is to get them off the mat and out into the world. To ask deeper, open questions. To stop and say, ‘I just want to reflect on you in a positive light.’ To stop and say, ‘Hey, can we hug a little more?'” Hoffman said. “This isn’t about meeting the love of your life. It’s about learning new tools.”

Finding a soulmate isn’t the main focus of “The Feels,” Hoffman said. (iStock)

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