‘We want to spread the word about women at war’

Jeremy ballSocial Affairs Reporter, BBC East Midlands
Bex bennettAn old soldier He says that women who are under mortar fire in Iraq and engaged in dangerous front roles need more recognition and support.
Dr Bex Bennett from Derbyshire founded Sisters Sisters, a community interest company that hired 160 members throughout England since it started in May last year.
The group now helps female military veterans working in health services to support each other through meetings and activities.
Dr Bennett, a Forensic Psychiatrist in Nottinghamshire, says that women face additional difficulties because very few people understand their military experiences.
Dr Bennett studied at Sussex Duke and Sandhurst and spent several years as Royal Electric and Mechanical Engineers and British army officers.
In South Afghanistan, a separate deployment involved traveling to remote bases and interacting with local communities.
He believes that many people still have a “very outdated idea” in which men distribute to the front in modern conflicts.
“Most of the time, women go out with their male colleagues and search for women, and women interact with civilians, Dr says Dr Bennett, Dr says Dr Bennett.
GivenDr Bennett jokes about close shaving when the fees land in the meter they sleep in Iraq.
“Especially I managed to avoid disaster … Although my laundry is flying up once,” he says.
“When everyone serves in Iraq and Afghanistan, they will always leave some scars, sometimes it can be really hard to talk.
“When I left the army, I felt quite isolated, I felt lonely. I don’t think anyone really understands my journey.”
Bex bennettDr Bennett believes that female veterans avoid traditional fields such as local royal British Legion clubs because of their misconceptions about the army.
“Women can find quite intimidating, or he says. “Sometimes people assume that they do not serve, or that someone who serves and can be disturbing is the wife.”
Royal British Legion spokesman says that his clubs are open to everyone.
“As the country’s largest military charity institution, we are proud to be in the heart of a national network that supports all our armed forces.”

However, Dr. Bennett says that sisters in service provide “catartik” support and connection that women can fight to find after leaving the armed forces..
“This is about meeting with people who do similar things, from Trodden, and to be able to laugh and laugh and joke.”
Women meet for food or coffee and walk in the dog in Derbyshire and Nottinghamshire.
In addition, they organize online meetings for sisters of more living service members and try to organize fitness activities and housing securities.

Mel Dyke, who lives in Staffordshire, says the network is a “vital community” for women who leave the army.
Im I found it quite difficult for my passage because I left when I had my eldest daughter, or he says.
“One day I was in a supportive army environment, then I was on the next birth leave and I became civil.”
Mel DykeMrs. Dyke laughs while defining its deployment to Iraq as a clerk with royal engineers.
“You often hear the term ‘pen-pusher’ as a clerk there, but it is used for female searches, especially in Iraq, so I will go to search patrols, or he says.
“To go out as a ‘top cover’ in a vehicle, so standing in a vehicle with my rifle provides the cover for the driver.”
Mel DykeMrs. Dyke said that the most difficult time came after the transfer of Queen Alexandra’s royal army to the Nursing Corps, and that she had cured war losses at the Headley Court of the former National Military Rehabilitation Center in Surrey.
Im I had to look at friends as sick, or he says. “It was really personal because my husband was still in operations in Afghanistan, but the regiment members were returning to Headley Court.”
One of these patients suffered traumatic brain damage in a explosion that killed his comrade. Both were close friends of Mrs. Dyke’s husband Chris.
“It was really hard to know what’s going on in Afghanistan to live normally … It was emotionally drained and I [was] Also pregnant, “Mrs. Dyke adds.

Gemma Saunders, a psychotherapist in Headley Court, founded sisters with Dr Bennett.
Ms. Saunders says that women who leave the service may be “scars” that combines the difficulties they face after having a challenging health roles.
“They are trained to avoid any weakness, or he says. “Although it’s not better, men should be as good as their colleagues.
“When they leave the service, it does not leave them, so it is much more difficult for them to reach support and access support.
“Women will continue and continue, they will carry this mental burden more than men. They may encounter as a hard shell to escape.
“He’s trying to break the obstacles to ask for help.”
GivenDr Bennett received an honorary master’s degree by Derby University for supporting women’s veterans and mental health.
He recently spent six months with prisoners of HMP Nottingham, including male veterans with mental health conditions.
However, Dr. Bennett says that sisters in service should “spread the word” about the pre -line role of women in recent clashes.
“You are seen and your experiences are important. There is power in society and you are not alone,” he adds.





