Mumfluencer backlash at Jamie Laing for ‘insensitive’ post about ‘superwoman’ Sophie Habboo and how she ‘created a magical Christmas’
Jamie Laing has been slammed by ‘mum influencers’ on Instagram for an ‘insensitive’ Christmas post that sets ‘unrealistic expectations’ for new mums.
The Made In Chelsea icon, 37, and his podcaster wife Sophie Habboo, 31, welcomed a baby boy named Ziggy earlier this month.
On Friday, Jamie took to Instagram to praise his wife. creating a ‘magical Christmas’ just three weeks after birth.
Sharing a sweet video of Sophie smiling next to the festive table, she wrote: ‘POV: your wife is in her 3rd week postpartum and still making a magical Christmas.’
But fans were quick to criticize the post for being insensitive and a ‘typical IG moment’ that only showed off the best parts of the day.
They wrote: ‘This is lovely, but at the same time, let’s not normalize postpartum women being ‘superwomen’, it’s not normal.’;
Jamie Laing slammed for ‘insensitive’ post as he praises ‘superwoman’ Sophie Habboo for ‘creating a magical Christmas three weeks after giving birth’
On Friday, Jamie took to Instagram to praise his wife for creating a ‘magical Christmas’ just three weeks after giving birth.
‘I normally love your content but this is an insensitive post and puts unrealistic expectations/pressure on other new moms. ‘Not everyone has the money, resources and support to do this.’;
‘I think this is not normal and a typical IG moment. To me, this is unfortunately all about people-pleasing and not prioritizing healing and real connections.’;
‘My first Christmas, when I was 3 weeks old, I slept most of the day.’
Others questioned whether the couple received outside help from caterers or other paid professionals.
They added: ‘It’s getting better but be honest in your posts. You paid someone to do it and assigned a chef to do everything.’;
‘If you have a caterer (family member) who helps, please let them know. I’m not disparaging, but keep it real for those who don’t come close. Life isn’t a competition, but it can feel like one. I wish you all health and happiness on your journey with Ziggy.’
Others encouraged new mums not to compare themselves to Jamie and Sophie’s perfect Christmas picture.
They wrote: ‘Hello friends. If you’re in your 3rd week postpartum and still feeling like death is warming up. That’s okay too. You are also superwoman AND your body does A LOT. You got this.’;
In the video, Sophie poses radiantly next to the table perfectly set for Christmas dinner
However, fans were quick to criticize the post as insensitive and a ‘typical IG moment’ that only showed off the best parts of the day.
Others encouraged new mums not to compare themselves to Jamie and Sophie’s perfect Christmas picture
Others questioned whether the couple received outside help from caterers or other paid professionals.
But others quickly came to Jamie’s defence, writing: ‘Why is everyone so negative?’
‘This is deeply unrealistic and contributes to a problem that causes postpartum women suffering.’;
‘This should not be a priority at all and the suggestion or idea that it should be is part of the problem.
‘Let the girl rest and cuddle the baby, let her eat to her heart’s content so she can raise a physically and emotionally nourished human being.’
But others quickly came to Jamie’s defence, writing: ‘Why is everyone so negative? Jamie shows appreciation to his wife, who is obviously doing great 3 weeks after giving birth.
‘This doesn’t take anything away from any mother who doesn’t do these things.’;
‘It’s great to see you congratulate @jamielaing, it’s important that she feels appreciated as she does great work this time and she really fits the description of superwoman.’;
‘I’m sure Jamie is just showing his love and appreciation for his wife, he’s not here to insult other postpartum moms, it’s not that deep.’;
‘Wow, this is some crazy work! I hope he’s had plenty of support and help.’
The couple went to ‘Britain’s leading postnatal health center’ last weekend after welcoming their first child.
The new parents instantly took to Instagram after arriving at the £2,000-a-night resort, located inside the five-star Mandarin Oriental hotel in London’s Hyde Park.
Jamie and Sophie are seen settling into their luxurious room, where Tenth Wellness has provided a 24-hour babysitter so mom and dad can relax.
The couple headed to ‘the UK’s leading postnatal health center’ last weekend after welcoming their first child (pictured last week)
The couple also enjoyed three Michelin-star meals a day, as well as use of the hotel’s top spa and beauty therapists.
Clients can also meet with a lactation consultant, attend educational groups for new parents, and receive a postpartum abdominal massage to help increase circulation.
The hotel’s rooms are equipped with a baby cot and nursing chair, as well as a welcome basket of postpartum goodies, including a pregnancy-safe skincare line called SKN TO SKN.
According to their website: ‘Every detail has been deliberately designed to support a mother’s well-being through expert-led care, personalized treatments, tailored support and practical education.’
